Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Unmarried w/o Children: Single Moms in the 21st Cent.

Hi Kids! I'm back with a new and improved blog on the timing of children. Right off the bat, I'm not trying to be PC nor an I'm trying to be Mr. Sensitive here. I've learned in recent months, that once a girl says she has a kid, fellas run far the FUCK away. Yes I know what you're all saying, "But Matt, your Mom was single and raised you through the 80's and 90's", yes she was, but she didn't spread her legs for every male that walked the face of the earth nor did she beg for affection. If you are a female, and you have a child, treat that child as your one and only priority. Please for the sake of the kid, if you are having issues raising it, give it up for adoption or put it a place far away from alcohol or drugs or the streets. Take responsibility for your actions and please give this child a half of life they can at least make an attempt of getting out on their own. You can't be in your early 20's and expect to go out and party and drink and get high, and not come home until 5,6, or 7 in the morning and expect the child to just go away cause mommy has a hang over. It doesn't work that way. Chicks who have kids from other relationships, want nothing other then to fill the void of not having a man in their lives. They long for that MALE spot to be taken up. Fellas you gotta hear me out, you aren't just dating her, she's feeling you out to be the next father figure for the child. I'm sure there are single moms who are good people, and I'm not taking anything away from them, but a majority of those under 25 who have kids, seriously are just looking to fill that void. STAY AWAY. Take it from the Mad Hatter, it aint cool to be just another sperm is the kiddy pool. Ladies out there, its called protection, endorse the use of condoms, get on the pill, seriously think before you jump head first into the Fischer Price $39.99 (water slide included) 16 inch Kay-Bee Toys special of a swimming pool.